The Rock.Paper.Scissors newsletter is out: resources related to a Canadian Abroad

This month’s Rock.Paper.Scissors e-newsletter focuses on lessons I’ve learned as a Canadian living abroad.  Missed the article?  Check it out here. (Not on the monthly e-newsletter mailing list?  Sign up for free here.) As is tradition, with each enewsletter article I write, I include resources – both serious & tongue in cheek.  On with the […]

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The Rock.Paper.Scissors newsletter is out: a Canadian Abroad

This month’s Rock.Paper.Scissors e-newsletter focuses on lessons I’ve learned as a Canadian living abroad.  (Not on the monthly e-newsletter mailing list?  Sign up for free here.)  1. Living in Africa has been a wild & wonderful adventure.  Kind of like the traffic.  It’s a big deal to navigate in a city with the 4th worst […]

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Warning: reflections in this mirror may be distorted by socially constructed ideas of beauty

Our reflections, what we take in & process from our external world, are wildly distorted. Period. End stop. After all, in the Victorian era, plucking a woman’s upper hairline, in order to give one a large forehead, was considered beautiful. Our impressions are distorted by our culture, our sense of place, our geography, our time […]

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100% human – Labels are for clothes

Labels are great. They can take what’s complicated & simplify it.  They can create community (any other mothers of teens out there? any other Canadians living in Kenya?).  They can be shortcuts that bring ease.  They can define & delineate.  Like assessments.  Like Life Lenses™. Labels can also be dangerous. They can bring shortcuts that […]

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Everyone smiles in the same language

Life Lenses™ is all about building bridges across different perspectives. Bringing appreciation to ‘other,’ to ‘different.’ Frequently, when conflict is rife, when tempers are hot, when differences are many, when time is short and resources are low, differences can be the only thing on our radar. While differences are vital, in fact it’s what makes […]

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Home is a pregnant pause & expat ‘um’

Kenya is my new home.  I’ve moved here after living my entire life in Canada.  I find myself asking people, on a regular basis, where’s home? If you’ve lived overseas for any length of time you’ll understand the pregnant pause that happens when you ask someone where’s home? A few ums are thrown in for […]

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The ‘Middle Wife’ by an Anonymous 2nd grade teacher

I checked this story on Snopes & turns out it’s an urban legend, however, it’s too cute nonetheless. It’s a great example of how, when your perspective is different (that of a child) things can get turned around in the most hilarious of ways. I’ve been teaching now for about fifteen years. I have two […]

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Women multiply

If you’re a frequent reader you know the Life Lenses™ blog is all about perspective how we see things & how that view affects who we are, how we act & what we prioritize as important. Our perspective affects what comes onto our radar easily, naturally & comfortably, as well as what flies below our […]

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A perspective on gender identity

This image is from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. I think it speaks volumes. ‘nuf said. ~~TGIF- each Friday I rejig & re-post a blog entry from my www.life-lenses.com blog, which is about enhancing our perspective & worldview.~~

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Fact chimp – just the facts ma’am

Ancient Egyptians believed that onions would keep evil spirits away. The band Duran Duran got their name from an astronaut in the 1968 Jane Fonda movie “Barbarella. In Belgium, there is a museum just for strawberries. Reindeers survive in the extreme cold by eating lots of moss. The moss contains a special chemical that helps […]

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